Have you ever wanted a do-over?
Maybe you think pushing a reset button would be a great idea!
Perhaps you aren’t happy with how life has turned out. Maybe you feel disappointed. Especially when you look at how time has passed and the days ahead don’t ring with anticipation.
Perhaps it’s your current job or friend circle that needs an overhaul…”show me your friends and I’ll show you your future” as the saying goes.
Or, maybe you see pruning or growth in your family that needs to be made.
I think this is normal. I think life would be boring if we were never challenged to come up higher.
It’s time to make the changes.
Really, who wants to live frustrated for the next few years?
If you don’t make the necessary changes, you will be at this same spot this time next year!
Think about that.
Life is precious. What are you going to do with this one, wild journey?
It doesn’t always require drastic changes. Often times strategic tweaking can do the trick. Interestingly enough, we already hold the keys to the changes we need.
All it takes is some old-fashioned courage and grit.
Change doesn’t come easily and it always comes with a price. But, if the pain of staying the same outweighs the fear of change, this is your moment!
Now, I realize change for some can come unexpectedly and may even be un-wanted. But, instead of fighting it, how about embracing it? My family is in the middle of the biggest life change since our early years. My goodness, this is life altering!
But, it is exhilarating!
Here are five lessons I am learning as we journey through our transition. I think they will help you as you reach forward.
Not everyone can make the journey with you. And, that is okay. And, you will be okay. Let them go. It hurts like heck, but, if you allow him to, God will help and heal. If you can avoid burning bridges, I’d advise that. But, sometimes, that can’t be helped either. Just go in peace and forgive. Live for the long-game.
Realize the past is a beautiful teacher. Sometimes, it’s tempting to hate the past and the hurt that has come with it. Even to the point of questioning the purpose of it all. If there is pain involved, bitterness will set in. Fight that! Fight it with all you have. Remember the good and learn from the difficult. Everything can be a teacher…if we let it. Keep in mind the past is what is propelling you into this new era of change.
Change is good. If everything stayed the same, we wouldn’t grow and become all we are destined to become. Go with the flow. Seek God on how he would have you respond to this change. He gives only good gifts. Remember the wonderful verse of Jeremiah 29:11. God has great plans for your life. Immerse yourself in the knowledge of this and be filled with gratitude.
Move forward in grace. God will walk with you into this new place. He has already gone before you. If you are losing something, he will restore it in his beautiful way. Take the grace you are carrying with you and share it with others. People need to see your light and courage. You in turn will inspire and encourage others. Forgive what needs to be forgiven. Release those that need released. Bless those that need blessing. Offer grace freely.
Stay in sync with God. Change can be a confidence buster at times. People around you may question your sanity or even try to sabotage your forward motion. Keep closely tied to the One who loves you more than anybody else. The One who knows your future days and works for your good. Not everyone does. That’s okay. But, God is on your side. He believes in you.
We are well on our way to a beautiful new season.
I’m working to remember these hard-learned lessons and shepherd my Loves in this as well. The change has been challenging, but honestly, I haven’t been happier! I know God is with us. My children are thriving. We have more peace. We don’t know how it will all look, but God is good. He only ever has our very best in mind. I look and see he has been behind us and is already ahead of us.
Take a deep breath.
You know what needs to change.
Inhale grace and walk in gratitude.
Take the best first step and the next step after that. Sometimes the best thing you can do is press the reset button.
You got this!