Try as I might, I just can’t seem to get it right.
I read something today. It made me think.
Oh, I’ve heard it a bajillion times before. Today, though, it came on the heels of a conversation my sweet friend and I had last weekend. I thought I knew it well. But today I realized I needed to see it from another view—a whole new angle.
We have been created in the image of our Creator. We have been made in His likeness.
In I Corinthians 3:16, it states we are the image of God and His Spirit dwells in us. Furthermore, we should not vandalize and abuse this temple. In my self-righteousness, I often give myself a big thumbs up on this one. Clearly, I have this one down. I take care of myself—body, mind and spirit…not doing the obvious no-no’s. You know, those things the Church has labeled as “not good for me” or “not temple honoring.” Whew! I’ve gotten this one thing right.
But, today. As I was reading that verse in my new book, it slapped me in the face—and heart.
I’m not. I’m not REALLY getting this right.
I beat my self up every day.
Yes. My soul and spirit and mind take a good hard beating. I wouldn’t let anyone speak to my friends this way. Yet, I bet many do that to themselves just like I do.
If you continue reading in Corinthians, we also see God is not too impressed with this world’s wisdom and standards by which it measures things. To Him it is foolish and stupid. He sees through it all.
In fact, it says, “He sees through the smoke-screens of the know-it-alls.” Hmmm. I’m feeling as if that pretty much sums it up in regard to today’s standards, “heroes”, and measurements of success.
So. Perhaps you are already a step ahead of me!
Why then, would we ever want to measure our success or failure or beauty by the standard this world has set up as
Back to the conversation last weekend.
Sometimes, I look in the mirror and, honestly, don’t like what I see. I wish some things were different. My body, personality, my flaws….you name it. Or how about when I look through the lens of social media.
“She is doing what I want; she’s just done it sooner and better. Look at her accomplishments; I seemed to have misplaced mine.”
You get it, don’t you?
As women, we watch and listen and compare ourselves right up with the celebs and stars and current trends. Or maybe you just look around at those surrounding you. You just compare yourself with your friends and enemies. You clearly know what you don’t like about yourself.
I beat myself up; with every mistake and misstep, I see a giant F!
If I eat too many carbs or calories, I’m a FAILURE. If I forget to have all the baseball gear ready for game time—FAILURE. If I miss an opportunity to say the right thing at the right time—FAILURE. If I can’t figure out how to be in two places at once—you got it–F. I’m severely calendar impaired and most birthday cards that have to be mailed….always late. But, hey! They get them, right? You get the picture. F, F, big giant F!
Instead of seeing the beautiful me, inside and outside, I see the annoying and frustrating flaws. The beating and bashing continues.
Can you relate?
So, my point to my friend was, perhaps we have something another person is praying for.
Maybe someone passing me in the mall, watching on Facebook, or down the street sees me and my life and all that I do right, and wishes some of this was hers. Just maybe? Because, I know we all do it. (And because we certainly don’t show the messy parts and neither do other people).
Other people see the beauty we don’t see.
The words from I Corinthians say it even better!
The Spirit of God lives in us and we were created by God in the first place. That is enough!
Enough is enough.
What more can be added or taken away?
If we can see ourselves as complete in Him, perhaps we can move past our faults and embrace the beautiful us. The God of the universe looks upon us, dwells in us, and says we are good. We are the image of God!
Why would that ever NOT be enough?
What are we saying when we hate on ourselves? What are we saying when we say we aren’t enough?
Not good enough.
Not smart enough.
Not deserving enough.
Not together enough.
Just. Never. Enough.
We are saying the Creator isn’t enough.
I pray we see this verse for what it is. It is a beautiful love note.
As our cultural standards tell us we are not enough, we are reminded we are.
Because of Him…..nothing we have done….but, because of Whose we are, we are enough!
Step up to that mirror and shut off the media. Remind yourself you are created by the Creator Extraordinaire and He calls you enough!
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Great blog! In Christ. I am enough. Yes…