Life comes in seasons.
Dreams and their fulfilling often come in fits and starts.
It feels like taking two steps forward and one step backward.
Sometimes, it might even feel as if nothing is happening at all.
Or, maybe it even feels like your dreams are unraveling before your eyes.
I continue to come across this quote,
“Sometimes when things are falling apart they may actually be falling into place.”
I like it.
I’ve often found this to be true in my life.
Maybe the waiting and wanting isn’t the problem.
Maybe that’s all part of the plan.
Sometimes, I get this picture in my mind of God sitting and watching and chuckling. Maybe He even looks at us and gives a wink. He watches us, you know. He didn’t just throw us out and leaving us flailing and falling, hoping we would find our wings and catch the wind. No, He is much more benevolent and kind. I imagine He must wonder at times why we take so long. Circling the same mountain over and over and over again. All the while, He is ready to reveal something super amazing!
We have to get out of our heads and out of the way.
So, on this, maybe I finally have.
My season of focusing solely on my family is slightly shifting. Nothing extreme or world shattering. Just a slight shift. Ever subtle, but it is enough to teach me something. For a while, I realized I didn’t have any dreams. Maybe life or crises or anxiety or depression does that. But, I found myself in that place. I found it nearly debilitating. It made me freeze in fear. How can I not have a dream?
I’m an “all in” kind of person. If I do something, it requires me to be all in. 100% full throttle in. So, that is how I mother and support my husband. A husband, three kids and a dog. Big life changes came with our firstborn stepping into college. So many things to keep up with and love and do. Thinking up a dream wasn’t really on the “To Do List”.
But, all the while I knew God had something for me to do in addition to my love of home. I kept circling and circling the mountain of purpose. It just led to discontent and sadness. It came in cycles and started coming with more and more frequency. It was just enough to unnerve and unsettle me and knock me from a place of contentment.
It’s cool how these moments force you to make the next step. It is almost like walking up a staircase…with the constant bumping into the step above you, but never able to rise up to it.
This is where I had found myself in the last couple of years.
But, life and dreams work slowly.
It isn’t a fast journey.
It takes collecting experiences and learning what is needed.
It is stopping and starting.
It is waiting and walking.
It is leaning in and pushing away.
And, if you are wrapped up in Christ, He is right in the middle of it all. Right there.
Watching and speaking.
Calling and loving.
Gently coaxing, and calmly pulling us back.
It all feels frustrating at times and even discouraging if we are honest.
The fits and starts and the collecting of experience—painful and beautiful alike.
It all serves to bring us to the place we need to be.
Slowly by slowly, the edges soften and light begins to shine through. Maybe not much at first. Perhaps, so faint you are afraid it will disappear if you turn away. But, oh, how journeying through the desert and circling the mountain teaches you so much!
I’ve learned a good deal about myself in all of this.
I’ve collected memories and thoughts and, most of all, some wisdom along the way. So, here I am. Seeing a very faint but distinct shimmer. I sit and listen quietly, searching and looking for signs and signals, hearing the wind blow and stir. My heart knows. New days and paths are leading me to what lies ahead. My heart knows nothing is wasted or useless. My heart knows its priority and first love. Even when circling a mountain I had grown entirely too familiar with, God was watching…and waiting. He was listening and shaping.
It doesn’t matter how hard you scream for your dream.
If it isn’t time for the dawning of the dream, it isn’t going to happen. God knows you. He knows your dream. He knows His dream for you. You are far too important to prematurely birth your dream. And besides, the birthing in and of itself is a long process. From the first glimpse of shimmer to full blown reality is often longer still.
But, keep this in mind. It. Is. Coming.
So, journey around the mountain. Listen and call. Watch and seek. Learn and release. And, wait. But, just do something to prepare for your dream. Waiting doesn’t mean being idle. Waiting is work. Wait and seek. Only He knows the real outcome for your dream.
I’m sure I will circle more mountains on my way. One dream is maybe not enough for my one, magnificent life. Here, though, is the lesson I am learning on the way.
I am doing great things with my life…even now. I may not be notable or noteworthy, but I am doing what I should be doing. And, as the time comes I will be ready to step into the dreams I am now dreaming. It’s time for me to dream. I think I’m getting it…and I think He is chuckling.