Do you ever feel like this?
Like life is a cross between “hang on for dear life, dig in and paddle fiercely…all this with eyes squeezed tightly shut.” Maybe you can relate.
I’m learning to live blueprint-free.
Learning to be fed daily from His hand. To rest and trust. These are scary, uncharted waters for a Planner. Oh, I always felt I trusted God to lead my life. I worked hard to surrender my will and follow Him and His plan. But, I guess when the paycheck is rolling in and security is sure and there aren’t any real risks in your life, it’s easy to “trust God with everything.”
Oh, well. I’m no longer there.
And it is either trust or flail. Those are the options.
The one clear message I hear over and over is “rest, be still, be quiet, trust.”
“I’ve got you; I’ve got this; quit trying to do this in your human strength; I will fight for you.”
Over and over for the last four months. When it’s easy to remember and when it’s not. He plays the message in different ways and in different methods. Some days I get it, some days it is harder for me to grasp.
Sometimes, weariness overcomes and wears me down. Often, the hurt from loss threatens to overwhelm. There is a very real understanding that we are not enough.
We are not enough.
We are not enough.
In our own strength we are never enough. Only in our weakness is His enough-ness allowed to shine forth. We take our small broken pieces…bundled up or scattered by the winds of life…either way. The only way you can be enough is when they are surrendered and placed at His feet.
The broken shards. Some pieces have been so pulverized there isn’t much to show for it. Just scoop them up. Scrape them all up and lay them down.
Then. And only then, are you enough.
I can’t do enough, be enough, plan enough, or think enough. No amount of strategizing, fixing, understanding, speaking out, or even forgiving is enough.
It’s all nothing.
Nothing in the eyes of the Father. He doesn’t want all of that. He certainly doesn’t need all of that. All that doing only serves to enslave us and wear us out.
Trying and trying and trying. I am finding that is a favorite word for me. Interestingly enough. Trying. I tried. I am trying. I try. I say that about accomplishing “important” goals or certain mindsets or mastering certain disciplines. For the love of goodness! No wonder I am weary!
I am busy doing all of these right and holy things in order to live the right way and learn the right things and please all the right requirements and all the right people.
How have I managed to slip into law living?
I have nothing.
I’ve given Him me and with that everything He wants I give Him free reign. And that, my friends, is costly.
He can’t do much with the know-it-alls, self-righteous and the Pharisees. Those missing the grace component. These are not pliable or teachable enough. Those who ignore the plank in their own eyes, nearly tripping over it, yet scream about the log in someone else’s.
He isn’t impressed.
Until we realize our nothingness without Him, we are a miserable lot.
NOTHING + JESUS = EVERYTHING.
I have recently found myself a part of a community whose mantra is this very thing: NOTHING + JESUS = EVERYTHING. And you want to know what is cool and beautiful about that? There is nothing to prove!
They don’t try to impress and they don’t need me to either. They just love.
It is a grace-filled living. They are open arms and grace-filled hearts. For whether we think we have something to bring to the table or not, we don’t. Not really. If we live in grace, we don’t get to pick and choose who deserves the gift of grace. We know we all are nothing in ourselves and in desperate need of grace at any given moment.
Resting is not something I do well.
I used to brag. I would say, “I don’t rest.” My friends would joke about me sneaking a nap on myself. I don’t brag anymore. The mandate is clear.
I’m learning to rest.
It’s amazing what becomes “normal” living. And, when it is ripped away, you begin to breathe and see the unhealthiness of whatever it was. I’m getting it.
I just need Him.
All but the very essentials in my life have been stripped away. And, I do not exaggerate. The tearing away has been painful and great.
It is not punishment.
It is a realigning, calibrating, and refining.
The souvenirs from the past journey don’t translate to this new one. The stripping away is of divine appointment and not of my own hand.
Run and leave; and don’t bring anything with you from one journey to the next.
Don’t long for the past. Exhale.
It’s feels like looking through a glass to the other side of the window.
This is divine rest.
It is a separating from the old in order to be ready for the new.
There is preparation in this separation.
If I don’t rest, I feel a panic bubbling up from the deepest parts of me. And weariness. And here we are again. God knows. So, for the umpteenth time, until I finally believe it down deep, He calls me to rest.
It is counter-intuitive. Everything screams to plan and prepare. To do and do. But, His strength is made perfect in my weakness. Yes. I will sit and rest in His arms.
Give up the nonsense.
He knows it all. He sees it all. And that is becoming enough for me. I can’t settle the score or balance out the scale or bring to pass that which needs to be.
I leave that to Him. And that is enough.